Episode 22

5-minute Breathing Exercise to Ease Anxiety [Ep 22]

Today, we’re diving into a powerful 5-minute breathing exercise designed to help you manage anxiety anywhere, anytime. This technique isn’t just about deep breathing; it’s about shifting your body out of that fight or flight mode and back into a state of calm. I’ll guide you through how to breathe into your belly instead of your chest, which is crucial for activating the calming sensors in your lungs. By practicing this exercise regularly, even when you’re not feeling anxious, you can train your body to respond more effectively during stressful moments. So, grab a comfy seat, and let’s explore how this simple yet effective method can bring you more peace and control in your daily life.

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Transcript
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You're listening to the Peace with Anxiety Podcast.

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I am your host, Irene Evangelo, anxiety counselor and clinical hypnotherapist.

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I'll be coming to you every week to share actionable tips, simple strategies and useful resources to help you break free from high function anxiety.

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We'll be covering how to recognize and understand your anxiety, strategies to change your thoughts and feelings, and ways to implement long lasting change.

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If you are trying to overcome people pleasing behaviors, navigate anxiety, living in self doubt or something else keeping you stuck, then you are in the right place.

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I know that you are ready to get to the next level of your life feeling free, calm, confident and in control.

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So let's get started.

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Hello and welcome Back to episode 22 of the Peace with Anxiety Podcast where we talk about how to overcome anxiety naturally.

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I am your host Irene Evangelo, an anxiety counselor and clinical hypnotherapist specializing in high functioning anxiety.

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And today I want to share with you my 5 minute anxiety reducing breathing exercise that you can do anywhere at any time.

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Alright, so as I mentioned, this is a breathing exercise that has been studied and shown to help regulate your emotions.

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So when we are anxious, we often try to rationalize our feelings.

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However, when you are in that anxious state, logic alone is not going to be enough.

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So this scientifically proven exercise is meant to get you out of the fight or flight state and bring you back to your body and to the present moment.

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It's so much more than just deep breathing.

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It helps to give back control to you of your body, of your heart rate and your blood pressure.

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So here's what we're going to do.

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We're going to breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth.

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But here's the key.

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When you breathe in, you're not breathing into your chest, you're breathing into the belly.

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So you can literally put one hand on your belly and the other one on your chest to make sure that you're not breathing into your chest but into the belly.

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And why is this important?

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Well, we have sensors at the top of our lungs that trigger the fight or flight state.

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And if you're only chest breathing, your lungs are hitting those sensors and triggering fight or flight.

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On the other hand, we have sensors at the bottom of our lungs that trigger a sense of calm throughout the body.

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So we want to trigger those.

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And when you breathe in through your nose, I want you to see your belly expand.

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It's really important.

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So you're gonna breathe in through the nose while expanding the belly and then you're Gonna bring your belly in.

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When you're breathing out, the next thing you can try is in.

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Inhaling for four counts, holding for two, and exhaling for six.

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So inhale through the nose for four counts, expanding your belly, holding for two seconds, and exhale for six counts out of the mouth, bringing your belly in.

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How does that sound?

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And if you have any questions about this exercise, feel free to reach out and let me know.

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And the last thing I want to add here, if you want to take this to the next level, is to focus on your body sensations.

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So on the inhale, I want you to focus on the sensations of breathing in your body, and then on the exhale, blow out all that build up tension and stress.

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So let's put this all together and try this step by step.

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So sit or lie down in a comfortable position, but make sure your back is straight to allow for full lung expansion.

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Place one hand on your belly and the other one on your chest, which will help you monitor your breathing and ensure you're breathing into your belly.

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Now, close your eyes if you feel comfortable, and take a slow, deep breath in through your nose for a counterfall.

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As you do this, focus on expanding your belly, and your chest should remain relatively still.

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Hold your breath for just two seconds at the top of the inhale, and slowly exhale through your mouth for a count of six.

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And as you exhale, gently contract your belly, pushing the air out.

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Your exhale should be slow and controlled, like you're blowing out through a straw.

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And then continue this cycle of breathing.

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Inhale for four counts, holding for two, and exhale for six.

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Now, the key here is to proactively use this exercise even when you don't feel anxious.

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And try to do this exercise for at least five minutes twice a day, in the morning and in the evening, or whenever it fits your schedule.

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And why practice this proactively?

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Because you're training your body on what to do when you're actually feeling anxious.

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So think about it.

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How can you make a skill to become automatic?

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You practice it over and over and over and over again, and eventually it becomes like driving, where you sometimes you don't even remember the journey because it's just so automatic.

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We want to achieve the same thing with breathwork, so building a skill that our body knows all too well, how to do it on autopilot during stressful situations.

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So this is my number one method to reduce anxiety, and I hope you try to do this for at least a week and observe any changes, and you can also rate your anxiety today.

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And then see what difference you notice after seven days.

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Now let's talk about those seven days.

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Well, seven days won't solve all your problems, but it's a start.

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And during this week, pay attention to how you feel before and after each breathing session.

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And maybe keep a journal to note any changes in your mood, stress levels or anxiety, because tracking your progress can provide you with insights and will help you to stay motivated.

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But let's talk about those anxious, stressful situations.

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So when negative emotions arise, of course, use this breath work technique.

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For example, if you find yourself suppressing emotions by eating, drinking or scrolling on social media, use those moments as cues to do breathwork instead.

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So notice when you're reaching for that snack or your phone and take a moment to breathe deeply.

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This can help break the cycle of numbing your emotions and instead allow you to process them in a healthy way.

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For instance, if you feel the urge to eat when you're not hungry, pause and take a few breaths instead, focus on the sensations in your body and try to identify what you're feeling emotionally.

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Are you stressed, bored or upset?

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By using breathwork in these moments, you can start to address the root cause of your feelings rather than masking them with temporary solutions.

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And similarly, if you find yourself mindlessly scrolling through social media, put your phone down and take a few minutes to breathe.

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This can help you become more present and aware of your emotions and also reduce the need to escape into your phone.

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So let me know how are you feeling?

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Send me a message on Instagram irenethe Anxietytherapist Share with me your experiences, ask me any questions or just let me know how it's going for you.

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Your feedback, your input helps me understand how I can better support you.

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And if you want to learn more about breathing exercises or other stress management techniques, I would invite you to register for my free Peace With Anxiety workshop where I share with you my exact method to overcome anxiety.

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Seriously.

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It's a 90 minute info session where I go step by step of what's including my Peace with Anxiety method that has helped me personally and also helped my clients as well to find calm, feel present and confident in their lives.

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And you will find the link in the show notes if you're interested.

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So that's it for today.

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Thank you for tuning in to this episode.

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If you found it helpful, please share it with others who might benefit.

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Until next time, take care and be kind to yourself.

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Thank you for listening to the Peace With Anxiety podcast.

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All the links are found below in the show notes.

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Thank you for listening and I look forward to seeing you the next episode.

About the Podcast

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About your host

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Irene Evangelou

1. I'm a Hypnotherapist, counsellor, baby-mum, podcast host, recovering perfectionist, big fan of cold coffee, metal music, deep conversations, and anything with chocolate ☕️🍫

2. I grew up in Greece and moved to Australia at 18 chasing a life that felt more like me.

3. For years I lived with high-functioning anxiety, hyper-responsibility, hypervigilance, overthinking and people-pleasing. Those patterns shaped me, they’re still part of my story, but now they guide me rather than control me.

4. There was always a duality in me: the girl who wanted to be kind and helpful, and the woman who wanted to succeed and explore her potential.

5. I studied psychology because I’m endlessly curious about why people do what they do, then continued my post-grad in counselling and hypnotherapy after my own therapy changed everything for me.

6. The diagnostic model doesn’t fully fit how I understand anxiety or self-worth; I see anxious patterns as protective strategies learned in childhood, not labels that define a person. That perspective shapes how I work.

7. I specialised in forensic psychology/counselling out of a passion for social and criminal justice, and I’ve worked in community settings because helping people is my core value.

8. I’ve been in therapy myself, it taught me how to slow down, listen in, and feel safe being myself. That life-changing experience is why I retrained as a therapist.

9. My mental health was a real challenge in my teens and twenties; I manage it now through ongoing therapy, lifestyle choices, and lots of self-awareness.

10. I truly want to help women break out of the cycles they learned in childhood; anxiety, overthinking, perfectionism, people-pleasing, so they can discover who they truly are and feel calm, confident, and safe in their own presence.

You might know me from the Peace with Anxiety podcast or my short, no-fluff mini-courses.

I’m also creating new ways to support you beyond 1:1 therapy, if you want updates, sign up to my newsletter in the link in bio.

Thanks for being here 🫶🏻

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